Wednesday 29 April 2015

The Top 20 Lessons That I Have Learned In Life Are…



1) I have learned in life that without passion life is like a dead animal being eaten by vultures.

2) I have learned in life that you can’t understand the problems and sorrows of other until you go through the same plight they have.

3) I have learned in life that 90% of things that we are afraid of never happen.

4) I have learned and experienced in life that true intentions, which forces you to work hard, always bring positive results in life.

5) I have learned in life that people dream and wish more and try less to achieve them and then whine about not having those things in life.  

6) I have learned in life that most beautiful and pure relationship on this earth is that of a mother and child. 

7) I have learned in life that only parents can sacrifice for you in life and if you still have them in life be grateful to God.

8) I have learned in life that 70% of relationships are that are simply forgotten could have been mended simply through proper communication. 

9) I have learned in life that useless ego has destroyed countless beautiful and precious relationships.

10)   I have learned in life that poverty sometimes compels us to take such decisions we would not have thought of taking otherwise.

11) I have learned in life that sometimes people form a negative opinion about what you said by totally disregarding the context in which you might have said something. Later you are taken aback by the meaning taken out of the words you uttered by people. 

12) I have learned in life that true inner peace can’t be achieved without being grateful to God and obeying Him.

13) I have learned in life that we mostly don’t act upon what we tend to preach others.

14) I have learned in life that no matter how good you are, sometimes dire circumstances in life compel you to make regretful decision for your loved ones knowing it will totally ruin your reputation. However, time demands that and people’s faith in get the best of you. And it hurts more when even the people closest to you don’t understand you. 

15)  I have learned in life No matter how much wise and a good hearted person you are, if you don’t know how to persuade people with your words you will end up being miserable. 

16) I have learned that if you continuously speak the truth, people start hating you.

17)  I have learned that greed causes duplicity in people. They become two faced.  

18) I have learned that the toughest, most difficult and emotionally tormenting moments leave a lasting impact on us in life and can never be forgotten as compared to the most beautiful and wonderful moments.


19) I have learned that the time you used to enjoy more was because you shared less with others but now you enjoy less because you share more with others in order to get their attention and comments. You are so influenced by people’s opinion that you only feel good or bad when they tell you good or bad things about you.

20)  I have learned in life that true love can never be forgotten

Monday 6 April 2015

How important worthy relationships are in Life?

Worthy relationships are not develop by just working or living with someone but develop when we help each other in time of need. And sometime if you come across such situation where you need help, a true relation try to help with full intention and others just make promise you as formality and not even try to help you even if they can. They just pretend and make false promise of help and never intend to help. And only true intention brings the results.

Like us everyone could be passing and facing lots of problem and if we look around us and observe people and their pain. Based on our experience we can help them or at least listen what they want to say and have a word of motivation and its indeed a best dose to walk them again, give a new glimpse of beauty of life and a passion to achieve what they love. Its not always easy to get out of bad time and daunting memories but true friend and relation not only help you to get out of it but also motivate you.

A mentor, a true friend who understand you  is always  valuable asset for anyone in life if he has it and know someone who counsel him. If we are surrounded such types of amazing people then despite of deep troubles, tension and persuading people, we quickly get through it and get a new inspiration in life to move on. A true adviser could be in shape of friend, life partner, parents or some other shape. Sometime when we are unable to see any light and path and get stuck at one point, they help you to see a new light and hope from nowhere and we get start again with passion, motivation and being grateful to God.

Life is full of intimidating circumstances, people, work and full of tensions and responsibilities and in the same time its indeed is full of joys, beautiful weathers, singing rains and birds, inspiring people and wonderful paths. But sometime we come across on wrong side of way and face challenges from mental disturbance to depression, health, tension and lack of interest and we lose passion. A true friend, a mentor always helps you get back to other side of road, show you new lights, bring back your smile, put you on paths where you love to go.